Whoa.. Time flies before you know it
Pretty much this posting is more on 2015 tho. Indeed it was a great year till December which the mishaps happened to my house.
No joke.. It still saddens me till today about it. Still Fresh in my mind on how did it happened and stuff like that
For those who don't follow malaysian news perhaps i can predict that you have no idea what happened..
It follows as this;
It was a Wednesday and christmas was approaching, Time really flies when you delay stuff, It was only 9 days away from christmas and we didn't do any shopping so called reason that we didn't have the mood yet. Much yelling from the head of the house and we decided to move.
Having breakfast at usual restaurant and we let for shopping. Had great time indeed with mom and lil cousin who stayed with us almost a month. Till a phone call came around 2 ish. Call from contractors stating they have bad news saying the wall collapse. To my surprise thinking it would be a small matter but nevertheless we rushed home to see what's going on.
When we reached home, I swear to god the only words i could say is FUCKKK!!! and yes that was infront of my mom. I just panic it was very bad...I don't know if i have the images but somehow i will find and upload it.
It was a fucking landslide at my house, It was too shocking till i just blanked out, saw a bike there and was wondering what happened to the worker who was clearing up the drain. Contractors rush to get the Excavator from outta no where and started digging. No one actually bothered about it
To make the story short, i called up the emergency hotline and they can even ask me what is landslide in Malay!!!!!! LIKE SERIOUSLY!!!!!
The commotion became worst when Fire Bridgette, ambulance and police came to the scene, estimated 1000 people was walking in and out from my house from the politicians till the ambassadors. After two hours of search, they manage to get the workers body which actually died on the spot.
the Press people actually was asking stupid questions which i bluntly fucked them up
https://www.facebook.com/jpamcheras/posts/500518220109127
http://www.hmetro.com.my/node/100561
http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/citynews/greater-kl/article/construction-worker-killed-in-retaining-wall-collapse-in-cheras/construction-worker-killed-in-retaining-wall-collapse-in-cheras
http://m.thestar.com.my/story.aspx?hl=Retaining+wall+collapses+killing+Indonesian+construction+worker&sec=news&id={8938FB6A-34C0-4222-914D-0601EF42B1F7}
http://www.hmetro.com.my/node/100622
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Saturday, October 12, 2013
Grandfather
It was back then when he was just a 11 yrs old kid
When he just only attended a normal ordinary engagement on a Saturday
It was a day after the writer's birthday and some how it didn't bothered him much
And the writer doesn't get attach to anyone easily..
To be frank that was the first time he really went inside the house and be with uncle through out the ceremony.
The adults were talking about marriages and engagement took place
The writer was basically was in his world of his own, no phones no gameboy, nothing!
The next day, his uncle brought his fiancee to the church
and the writer and his brother accompanied his uncle to his fiancee's house
As we arrive there, we were warmly welcomed by uncle's in laws.
Seriously huge family tree, Sometimes the writer wonders why doesn't he have the chance to have many siblings...
However, that's the 1st time the old man comes out, very stylish man, Hair being dyed to black
So he asked the writer's uncle whom are we
And the uncle explained..
"Oh wow! I'm officially a grand father"
Those words still linger in the writer's mind
And his hospitality towards us was amazing..
He made sure we ate till the fullest
Talked to us as if we were his grand sons
There was a year when he celebrated his anniversary in Pandan Lake club
The anniversary took place as if it was all wedding once again
And the writer sat with his cousins and his brother..
Came one of his sons and said
"Dei, Tata is calling you.. Better go to the main table and eat at there.. Not my instructions but his"
So it was a stunner where he's a man who had alot of relatives and friends...
He could easily call up any of his old friends or relatives but instead he chose me to sit beside him at the main table...
It was a talking point in that function where people tend to asked who is this kid..
As we grew up older,
He used to advise me about life
And he used to talk about numerology as he was quite good in it
When ever we see him anywhere, he will always say
"My Grandson! Come over here" and also introduce me to his relatives as his grand son
Eventhough the writer had his own grandfather who's in banting,
But he was never as close as how he is with this man..
Years gone by and just somewhere last year when the writer just told his grandpa
"Tata, you know something, So many years i've known you but not even once we took a picture together"
He answered "Hahahaha Come come grandson, picture only right"
Snapped pictures and that was the last diwali i saw him...
The saddest part was the writer remembered him saying
"Get married soon Grandson.. I want to see my great grandson before i leave"
Few months down the road, he received a call saying that he past away..
No words can describe how down was he...
How painful is that a man who was close to him
And yet he's just gone...
It still hurts him badly..
Sometimes when he goes for their family function,
He somehow can sense that his old man is still around
But he smiles cuz he's in a better place
Rest in Peace Grandfather... We shall meet on the shore someday!
When he just only attended a normal ordinary engagement on a Saturday
It was a day after the writer's birthday and some how it didn't bothered him much
And the writer doesn't get attach to anyone easily..
To be frank that was the first time he really went inside the house and be with uncle through out the ceremony.
The adults were talking about marriages and engagement took place
The writer was basically was in his world of his own, no phones no gameboy, nothing!
The next day, his uncle brought his fiancee to the church
and the writer and his brother accompanied his uncle to his fiancee's house
As we arrive there, we were warmly welcomed by uncle's in laws.
Seriously huge family tree, Sometimes the writer wonders why doesn't he have the chance to have many siblings...
However, that's the 1st time the old man comes out, very stylish man, Hair being dyed to black
So he asked the writer's uncle whom are we
And the uncle explained..
"Oh wow! I'm officially a grand father"
Those words still linger in the writer's mind
And his hospitality towards us was amazing..
He made sure we ate till the fullest
Talked to us as if we were his grand sons
There was a year when he celebrated his anniversary in Pandan Lake club
The anniversary took place as if it was all wedding once again
And the writer sat with his cousins and his brother..
Came one of his sons and said
"Dei, Tata is calling you.. Better go to the main table and eat at there.. Not my instructions but his"
So it was a stunner where he's a man who had alot of relatives and friends...
He could easily call up any of his old friends or relatives but instead he chose me to sit beside him at the main table...
It was a talking point in that function where people tend to asked who is this kid..
As we grew up older,
He used to advise me about life
And he used to talk about numerology as he was quite good in it
When ever we see him anywhere, he will always say
"My Grandson! Come over here" and also introduce me to his relatives as his grand son
Eventhough the writer had his own grandfather who's in banting,
But he was never as close as how he is with this man..
Years gone by and just somewhere last year when the writer just told his grandpa
"Tata, you know something, So many years i've known you but not even once we took a picture together"
He answered "Hahahaha Come come grandson, picture only right"
Snapped pictures and that was the last diwali i saw him...
The saddest part was the writer remembered him saying
"Get married soon Grandson.. I want to see my great grandson before i leave"
Few months down the road, he received a call saying that he past away..
No words can describe how down was he...
How painful is that a man who was close to him
And yet he's just gone...
It still hurts him badly..
Sometimes when he goes for their family function,
He somehow can sense that his old man is still around
But he smiles cuz he's in a better place
Rest in Peace Grandfather... We shall meet on the shore someday!
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Sunday, July 14, 2013
Mother..
Some of them treat mother as goddess
Some kids treats their mom well as they are more closer to the mothers
Some kids treats their mom well as they are more closer to the mothers
Well? How about u?
For the writer,
He's just a 50-50 person
No doubt people can say many things..
Oh you should be grateful and etc..
true enough! Appreciation is there
He's just a 50-50 person
No doubt people can say many things..
Oh you should be grateful and etc..
true enough! Appreciation is there
But there's one thing the writer always fear
If the person is not there anymore...
If the person is not there anymore...
Have you actually thought what if your mother is no longer with you?
The writer himself has experienced certain of his friends who their mother passed away
And the aftermath?
Few scenarios
The writer himself has experienced certain of his friends who their mother passed away
And the aftermath?
Few scenarios
When the writer was std 3,
He clearly remembered his class mate name Rajesh Kumar
The writer don't know how his mother died but however
The writer could only remembered that he became a "9"
For those who don't know "9" is, it's like a woman soul trapped in Male's body.
Till today, the writer has no clue what or where is this fellar could be
He clearly remembered his class mate name Rajesh Kumar
The writer don't know how his mother died but however
The writer could only remembered that he became a "9"
For those who don't know "9" is, it's like a woman soul trapped in Male's body.
Till today, the writer has no clue what or where is this fellar could be
Another incident happened somewhere 3 yrs ago
Where his friend from same college but different course
Apparently her mom died of breast cancer
The writer only met her mom once
And the next year she passed on
Where his friend from same college but different course
Apparently her mom died of breast cancer
The writer only met her mom once
And the next year she passed on
The Aftermath,
The writer's friend was totally depressed
And till today
He prays that she would get out from that depression
Knowing how close was the relationship with mother and daughter.
Apparently she even flunked some subject's
Not the same college as the writer but in a different college.
The writer believes not all of them are the same,
Some folks can be very bold and strong
Some even just cover up with their usual mask
But the writer respects those who are actually accept the fact that they are no more around... Like mind tells you to move on... Don't care about what happens now but think about the future...
The writer's friend was totally depressed
And till today
He prays that she would get out from that depression
Knowing how close was the relationship with mother and daughter.
Apparently she even flunked some subject's
Not the same college as the writer but in a different college.
The writer believes not all of them are the same,
Some folks can be very bold and strong
Some even just cover up with their usual mask
But the writer respects those who are actually accept the fact that they are no more around... Like mind tells you to move on... Don't care about what happens now but think about the future...
Monday, July 1, 2013
Let's change
Have you ever dreamt about waking up as another person...
Like.. A whole new different person
A person who is the total opposite of the current you(not changing gender)
Seems easy but it's hard right...
Well let just say that the writer just had to do some changes in his life
It's not easy but he sometimes thought that being good at times pays off...
How shall the writer put it?
How shall the writer put it?
It's kinda hard to explain certain things..
On why people change.. Or why they even think about doing some changes...
On why people change.. Or why they even think about doing some changes...
Some guys says cause of woman they change...
And the girls just use the other way around...
And the girls just use the other way around...
If it was for something bad to good.. The writer is pretty sure that many people would support along the way especially friends...
However...
If it was good to bad.... It's something to ponder about..
However...
If it was good to bad.... It's something to ponder about..
What the writer went through seems a lil unfair towards him... He felt he mingle around with ladies alot.. He respects them.. But yet certain people just declares him as womanizer.
Even recently, he just feels that he's like a rebound to certain people.. forgotten while they are in midst of happiness and when they are sad.. they don't know who to go to and they end up texting the writer as if they don't feel it's a lil awkward to text the writer after long duration.
Do you know what it pist off people at times? What every fat guy that treats a woman right.. like they always wanted... and they (woman) always end up with a "Punch" dialog.. A dialog which clearly indicates that you're friendzoned for life...That's it! full stop!
Seems a lil hard to take it right.. What if you actually spend so much of time being with her or him... Making sure she's/He's in good shape where her/his useless douche duffle bag of her bf/gf treats her so crappy... It's not that the writer is sad or whatsoever.. he feels very dissapointed at times..
Do you know what it pist off people at times? What every fat guy that treats a woman right.. like they always wanted... and they (woman) always end up with a "Punch" dialog.. A dialog which clearly indicates that you're friendzoned for life...That's it! full stop!
Seems a lil hard to take it right.. What if you actually spend so much of time being with her or him... Making sure she's/He's in good shape where her/his useless douche duffle bag of her bf/gf treats her so crappy... It's not that the writer is sad or whatsoever.. he feels very dissapointed at times..
The writer wished that she could see a clearer picture that the bf of hers is not the one for her.. writer knows problems raises and stuff like that as couples.. but you don't insult your partner.. that's all i'm saying.. As they say.. A tongue is sharp as knives.. It doesn't stab u physically but mentally as well...After all people fall in love not seeing their body sizes or whatsoever thing u call it.. But via the mutual understanding and so many criteria comes along the way...
Cases like this sometimes makes the writer ponder... Is it so bad to be the good one? You listen to their stories and things change along the way...
You know what... I'm sure many of you have watched the video below.. Watch it and enjoy it..
If you're in this situation.. It's up to you to change.. But as the writer thinks..
It's time for him to change..
Cases like this sometimes makes the writer ponder... Is it so bad to be the good one? You listen to their stories and things change along the way...
You know what... I'm sure many of you have watched the video below.. Watch it and enjoy it..
If you're in this situation.. It's up to you to change.. But as the writer thinks..
It's time for him to change..
Thursday, June 6, 2013
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