It's weird that these days
We have tonnes of ways to greet one another..
HI, Hello, Dei!, Pai! Bro.. and etc..
But, how many of you actually said hello to a stranger?
Yes we all grew up in a manner that we shouldn't talk to strangers..
True enough with the world these days can't be trusted..
But if we don't talk... we won't have friends..
For a kid point of view... every adult is good cuz they teaches things to them...
Even you point a gun as well... they will say Holding gun is good..
So as parents.. they must know how to let the child mingle around.. as these days you know..
The brains is on the finger..
"Smartphones." "IPad's" and etc etc...
ASk them to think for a bit and their fingers does the magic instantly..
We try to look at another perspective view of it..
As for adults.. just a simple question to be asked here..
Have you said a hello to a stranger?
Stranger in terms of Road sweepers..
Stall workers..
Janitor staff in ur office place..
Anyone lower rank than you...
Have you?
=)
Bet you wouldn't have a chat with a prostitute before i say...
You would be wondering what went wrong with the writer..
Aiight aiight people say that no one is perfect nor the writer also but did you know by doing these simple things..
You gain respect...
You create a friendliness atmosphere
Most important thing..
You create a smile for them...
You may say it's nonsense and stuff like that..
Cuz the writer has been doing that for years..
A simple chat with a petrol bunker assistant...(Who is a Bangladeshi)
Today... even he sees the writer from far away.. he always make time to have a lil chat with him...
Cleans his windows eventhough being forced by the writer not to do so...
Y??? The impression that you will make if you talk and a lil bit of caring feeling..
Makes the person so happy at times like he's been listen by someone else...
Not only the foreiners
But also to local people...
Even today the writer just was walking up the staircase to see his another property..
And then he just bumped into a cleaner..
Which she feels that "oh there's someone superior than me.."
You could eventually see the fear in her...
So the writer just said...
"Tumpang lalu kak.. Minta maaf ya"
The cleaner was stunned...
And she smiled..
After checking the premises..
He bumped into her again..and asked
"Sudah makan ya kak"
She just replied : "Belum adik"
Writer.. "Kak diet ke??? sudah pukal 3 dah... Makan lah sikit kak.. nanti gastik pulak"
All she could do is.. giggled and nod her head...
Now.. do you see the whole picture??
The next time she sees you..
She might smile and think about the time you made her smile...
Eventhough it was a small conversation..
Have a great week folks...
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